Time makes you helpless
I have been in a happy relationship with a guy for almost four years now and today I came to realise that he's such different guy than what I was thinking. I always thought he's a normal guy with little insecurities, a bit desi, a bit modern. Just the right amount of Haryanavi. Today he said that, "Girls don't want guys to approach them in a bar or they are committed then they should not wear short clothes. A girl wearing short dresses is an invitation for a guy to approach her." Am feeling so helpless right now because I never thought I was dating guy who came out today. Was I really this oblivious the whole time. Is he really not the guy I thought he was. I thought he is a MBA from IIM, a prestigious institute of India. I thought he might be haryanvi but he must be a little progressive because we talked and talked for hours for years. And I never came across this side of him. Or he made me think. Did I choose to ignore that side of him. Was he always like this. ...