ITS FREEZING OUT

                 We are inside within the warmth of our houses, this warmth I am talking about is not of those walls around you but the warmth of our family/ our loved ones around us. I am really close to my family so I never mostly get people who are not close to their family that much.  It's a very famous saying, "You can't choose your family". Well! no debate with that, you can't choose them. You can get freaking annoying fellas or crazily orthodox either with a lots of melodrama or a Hum Saath Saath Hain kinda family but you know what at last they are the one you are connected to, they are the ones who support you even if they continuously criticise you. It's sometimes feel so crazy living with them. Once you start growing you start finding every small details about them that can irritate you whether it is your mother picking up your your stuff from your usual places or your siblings teasing you a lot, many times a small fight with cousins make our heart sour.

            But even with all this that's a bond for life. At last what we all are searching for, isn't it FAMILY? We are continuously in search of that warmth and bond that can stay with us for miles and miles of our life whether it's in our friends or lovers. Doesn't matter how selfish you think your family is but you never know the whole story and even if you know you might wanna give one more chance of love to them. The biggest compliment anyone gets is "You are family" because well know the importance of that word.

             The world out there has cold hearts. The world is freezing because of them. In news, many times the closest betray you the way you can't expect from a stranger which had it even more difficult to trust and love your family, closed ones, friends or the people we spend our whole day with. don't you think with this distrust and these differences growing, we'll be left with nothing to cherish and all we will be left with are some selfish bonds that can benefit us. Very common and sad evidence of this are old age homes where people send "extras" of their houses when they are of no use which is actually better than those who just throws their parents out on the road. 

             Differences, fights, money, everything keeping aside, in this cold selfish world the one that can hold onto is your family and how much you are not stuck with them, they are with you. Value that warmth, not everyone gets that and once you will encounter this freezing world, they will not be there physically but just that feeling that you are not alone.